Dear Ones, if you are always telling others what they should do, while it may be coming from a place of love, it will ultimately be disempowering to them. At best, constantly stepping in sends the message you don’t believe a person is qualified to run their own life, which has the potential to feed fear and doubt. At worst, it encourages them to give their power away to the opinions of others.
Further, it perpetuates separation in your own relationships because the underlying theme is that you feel more advanced or somehow above the other rather than simply connecting with them from a space of unconditional love and acceptance.
It is much like seeing that someone signed up to take an aptitude test to see how much they have learned and then sitting down next to them and giving them all the answers. It would be very difficult for them to gauge their own wonderful capability! Constantly stepping in for another can also deny them the joy of the unfoldment, the joy of self discovery, and the joy of connecting with their own inner guidance systems.
Love others enough to let them find their own way. Share open-heartedly if they come to you for guidance in a way that is empowering to all. Trust that they will learn and grow because they have their own team of helpers and their own beautiful, capable soul at the helm. Encourage those you love to explore their own truths and abilities and celebrate their successes! To do so honours the free will and highest soul expression of all, which is exactly what your guides do for you. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
