Now is an ideal time for you to examine how you might be limiting yourself with your beliefs. Many of your beliefs are based on past experiences that were unpleasant so you think the best way to proceed is to avoid that experience completely, rather than being open to having a better, more satisfying experience.
Let us give you an example. Let us suppose you have had several relationships that were unsatisfying and ultimately failed. You feel that relationships are a lot of work and make your life worse so you decide you would rather be alone. We agree, it is better to be alone than to stay in something that doesn’t honour you. But to deny yourself the experience of having a relationship that is a true match to you and supports and uplifts you in every way would be a great disservice to yourself.
It is not that you don’t want relationships, you just don’t want that kind of relationship. That shows that you have grown and evolved. Give yourself the time you need to heal, deepen your self love, and get clarity about what your energetic priorities are moving forward. When you are ready, be consciously aware and allow the universe to align you with a new, wonderful relationship that is a match to how much you have grown.
The same holds true for all areas of your life. If you see a doctor you don’t care for, it doesn’t mean you avoid doctors forever, it simply means that one was not the right match for you and you will redirect into finding one that is. If you have a job in a certain area that you truly don’t enjoy, you don’t have to stop working, you just have to shift your focus into doing something you love.
Cast your net wider! Identify what you might be holding yourself back from and release that and open to the idea that you can have a completely different experience that is wonderful and lights you up. There are infinite possibilities in the realm of potentiality. With the wisdom you have gained it is absolutely safe to get curious and see what else is out there.
Do you see? Don’t limit your future by painting it with the brush of the past. You are an ever-evolving being. Allow the future to unfold to express itself as a match to who you are today. You just might be amazed at what is waiting for you to discover! ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
