“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.
We have a tendency to look for the positive in a person, a situation, an event, and even in our own history. As we look back at the lives we lived in physical form, we do tend to see how everything was a positive in our life experiences. Sometimes not getting what you want is the best possible outcome in a situation, but it can be very hard to see that when you are standing right in the middle of that situation and even hurting emotionally because of it. But then a year later, you might look back and realize that what you wanted was not as good as what you eventually got.
It is hard to remember that in the moment of a disappointing experience, however. Hopefully, with enough experience there on Earth, you do come to realize that when you don’t get something you want, it can be for your highest good, and it can also mean that something much, much better is coming along, something you could not have even imagined. One of the worst ways of utilizing your physical mind is to get attached. Your imaginations are wondrous tools because they can point you in so many directions, but when you get fixated on something with your mind, and you get attached to it, then you are really trying to outsmart your higher self.
If you can trust that your higher self always knows what is best, and always delivers to you eventually what you want and what you didn’t even know you wanted, then you can start to live happily ever after, then you can start to appreciate the moment you are in, even if it’s not the moment you would have chosen for yourself. Be flexible and know that everything serves you in some way. Everything in your life and everything that isn’t in your life truly is positive, but you have to look for the positive. And you do that after you have your meltdown, your temper tantrum about not getting what you want. You are allowed to experience those intense emotions.
And we are also quite certain that those emotions are serving you. So if you can just guide your mind ever so slightly into recognizing that what you are experiencing is perfect as it is, and is serving you in some way, then you will hold the keys to this beautiful universe of ours.
We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”