There is a difference between knee-jerk resistance and discernment. Resistance is judgemental and avoidant while discernment takes the time to feel into something before deciding whether it is a match for you or not. The first is a reaction, the second based in conscious awareness. Reactivity is often a clue that there is something within you that is seeking healing around that theme or energy, while conscious awareness is more curious and neutral, and comes from a balanced place. To proceed in your life in a way that can get you where you truly wish to go, we highly recommend you wait until you can find your balance and can look at any situation from a place of wisdom before you take action. Your heart-centred choices will always lead to satisfying and empowering results, while resistance and reactivity will keep you on the merry-go-round of what is unwanted. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young