How much separation you choose between you and others can be indicative of a need for healing. For many of you distance equals safety. There is big difference between healthy boundaries which comes from a space of wisdom and empowerment and separation that is still rooted in fear and perceived powerlessness. There is a difference between solitude and isolation.
So what do you do if you feel you are choosing separation due to unhealed wounds? Explore the space. What emotions are driving the need for distance? Why are you feeling afraid or disempowered?
Once you discern what the prevalent emotion is that is driving that need for space, send love to the the part of you that feels unsafe and then send love to distance itself. Make that space between you and others not a wall, but rather a buffer zone of love and healing that will positively affect everyone involved. As you fill in that distance with the safety and comfort of love and compassion, you will find it much easier to shift into being open to connectedness which is what your soul truly seeks.
Walls, while they often seem like a good idea, keep everything out. We want you to have the full experience of what you yearn for and deserve from connection, such as love, joy, support, encouragement, friendship and so much more! From a healed space you will be able to use your wisdom to let others in who will truly add to your life in the most wonderful ways. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young