“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.
We have discovered that there is a fine line that humans walk between the idea of being in love with someone and with being obsessed or infatuated with that person. You have many examples of when that initial feeling of love goes to the extreme of obsession in your history. There have been individuals who have committed crimes in order to impress someone that they were infatuated and obsessed with. People have committed suicide over having been rejected by someone they had that strong feeling for, and there many other examples of people going to extremes because of something as beautiful a feeling as love.
So it is important to understand what is really happening when you feel that sensation within yourself so that you can activate it and access it when you want to, in spite of whether your affections are reciprocated. When you are in love, you are in that vibration. You find the state of being within you that aligns you with the truest aspect of who you really are. When a person feels that the state is dependent on being able to have access to the individual they love whenever they want that access, and then they are not granted that access by the other person, it does feel like that separation from Source feeling that is so problematic on your world.
People spend so much time and effort and take so many actions to try to get to that place of reconnection to Source, which is obviously something that can never really be lost. When people talk about life as an illusion, that is the primary illusion. The primary illusion is that you are separate from Source. And then, follow that illusion with the one that says, ‘I need that person to love me back, and I need to have access to that person in the flesh, or I will feel that separation from who I really am as unconditional love.’
Most love is conditional, and unconditional love being who you really are is the love you are really seeking. That means you can love someone else, have that love not be reciprocated, and be fine with it. That’s what you seek because you seek to be love, not just to be in love and have that love reciprocated. We recognize that being in love and having that love reciprocated does make it easier to be who you really are as a Source Energy Being comprised of unconditional love, but you cannot control another person. All you can do is make it your mission to be the love that you want to have reflected back to you, and when that is your mission, you are definitely on the right track.
When you love a flower or a sunset, that is when you know you are accessing the love that you truly are very easily. The more conditions you place on being in that state of being, the harder it is going to be for you to be in your physical body and be happy and healthy. So you have to find a way to experience love, to experience your true essence, and we recommend that you do that before you get into the romantic relationship, which may or may not be forever. Accessing that love within you can be as simple as deciding to do so, being heart-centered, and feeling for the love that you truly are. And that is our recommendation to all of you.
We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”
Channeled by Daniel Scranton