Some human beings don’t allow themselves to fully heal from past hurts because they feel like that is letting the person who hurt you ‘off the hook’, or it is saying that what happened to you was ok. This simply isn’t so. What healing does mean is you love yourself enough now as an empowered adult to untether yourself from what doesn’t honour you once and for all.
Putting off your healing to teach someone a lesson or to try to hold someone accountable hurts no one but yourself. Let the universe provide the checks and balances necessary for the other person’s soul growth and evolution, and allow yourself to move forward, shining in your wellness and truth, filled with wonder for your own resilience and innate wholeness. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young