Co-dependency begins to heal when you take your own loving care, focus, and encouragement and give it to yourself, because it is at the point when you pivot your attention from an external to the internal that true growth and change can occur. Dear Ones, please understand it is your love and attention you’ve been seeking all along! Once you receive it, from that space of wholeness and balance your connections will naturally shift into much healthier dynamics that support the empowerment and wellness of everyone involved. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young