People have an idea that boundaries are static and unmoving. In reality, boundaries are much more effective when they are malleable. There will be times when you need more self care. There will be other times when others need more care. If you are making decisions based on what will be most empowering to everyone involved, you will find a healthy balance and flow that allows you to give and receive, and serve with an appropriateness that honours all. ~Archangel Gabriel