It’s time for us to get serious about love now. And before you
remind me that it has been years or longer since your last relationship
and you have not been able to create one during that time, no matter how
hard you have tried, let me say that help is on the way and we will see
a big opening and change in this area in 2014. We need to be paired up,
as I said on the December 3, the Love and Forgiveness Paradigm call
(the link to the recording is provided at the end of this article) and
our divine partnerships and kindred spirit connections, which are free
of karma, are forming now.
In our recent Love and Forgiveness Paradigm call I said that it was time for us to ‘pair up’ and described that as a process of expressing the divine masculine and feminine in partnership. As we create the new earth paradigms that are grounded in our divinity, which is a reflection of our wholeness (not ‘holiness’), we have to bring all aspects of love into balance.
Unconditional love is one aspect, but it is an energy that is neutral. As emotional beings we need to have the emotion of love, aligned with the energy of love. This is the soul-ful, fulfilling, joyful, balanced, high heart-based love that we all long for. We used to call it soulmate love but we have graduated beyond soulmates, which are generally how we work through karmic relationship issues. Now we’re ready for our kindred spirits or divine partners, we are ready to get serious about love. So how do we do that?
We’ve done most of the healing work, and before you ask ‘What else do I have to heal’, there is no more healing to do, the next step is taking action. We get so caught up in the healing that we forget that part of healing is putting what we have learned into effect, using the knowledge to create a different path. There’s where we usually get stuck because we stop with the healing. Now that we have done that (over and over again), it’s time to take action.
And if you don’t think that is possible, let me share with you that I know over 20 people who have not had relationships in years or decades and who are now in wonderful, fulfilling, love relationships that ‘just happened’ for them. They had ‘chance’ encounters, meetings that happened ‘out of the blue’ and they met someone they were instantly attracted to, immediately connected with, and now they’re a couple and they could not be happier.
It only takes a moment to meet that person and this energy is available to us now. When we ‘fall in love’ our hearts open wide and that is the purpose of these relationships, to open our hearts. We need to be ‘open hearted’ to step into these new dimensions and what better way to do that than to be in love?
This is what we need to bring into the new earth paradigms, the blending of emotional and energetic love, which clears the path from all of the drama, karma and trauma that we have experienced to be able to be aligned with the energy of unconditional love in an emotional context. What do you have to do to clear that? Here are 5 steps to clearing your path for love:
1. Clear the boulders from your path by releasing the emotions that don’t serve the love you want to create now (this is your love past).
2. Fill your own love basket so you bring something to the table.
3. Know what you want in a partner and, more importantly, what you bring to the partnership.
4. Know what love language you speak so you attract someone you can talk to.
5. Make sure you issue your love invitation to the right people and read the RSVPs carefully.
In our recent Love and Forgiveness Paradigm call I said that it was time for us to ‘pair up’ and described that as a process of expressing the divine masculine and feminine in partnership. As we create the new earth paradigms that are grounded in our divinity, which is a reflection of our wholeness (not ‘holiness’), we have to bring all aspects of love into balance.
Unconditional love is one aspect, but it is an energy that is neutral. As emotional beings we need to have the emotion of love, aligned with the energy of love. This is the soul-ful, fulfilling, joyful, balanced, high heart-based love that we all long for. We used to call it soulmate love but we have graduated beyond soulmates, which are generally how we work through karmic relationship issues. Now we’re ready for our kindred spirits or divine partners, we are ready to get serious about love. So how do we do that?
We’ve done most of the healing work, and before you ask ‘What else do I have to heal’, there is no more healing to do, the next step is taking action. We get so caught up in the healing that we forget that part of healing is putting what we have learned into effect, using the knowledge to create a different path. There’s where we usually get stuck because we stop with the healing. Now that we have done that (over and over again), it’s time to take action.
And if you don’t think that is possible, let me share with you that I know over 20 people who have not had relationships in years or decades and who are now in wonderful, fulfilling, love relationships that ‘just happened’ for them. They had ‘chance’ encounters, meetings that happened ‘out of the blue’ and they met someone they were instantly attracted to, immediately connected with, and now they’re a couple and they could not be happier.
It only takes a moment to meet that person and this energy is available to us now. When we ‘fall in love’ our hearts open wide and that is the purpose of these relationships, to open our hearts. We need to be ‘open hearted’ to step into these new dimensions and what better way to do that than to be in love?
This is what we need to bring into the new earth paradigms, the blending of emotional and energetic love, which clears the path from all of the drama, karma and trauma that we have experienced to be able to be aligned with the energy of unconditional love in an emotional context. What do you have to do to clear that? Here are 5 steps to clearing your path for love:
1. Clear the boulders from your path by releasing the emotions that don’t serve the love you want to create now (this is your love past).
2. Fill your own love basket so you bring something to the table.
3. Know what you want in a partner and, more importantly, what you bring to the partnership.
4. Know what love language you speak so you attract someone you can talk to.
5. Make sure you issue your love invitation to the right people and read the RSVPs carefully.
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